2010-01-11 What you may find out about person after his erotic dreams. Part 4
 S and M.
He/she watches how slowly snail creeps on the leaf. He/she starts to become irritated because of measured motion and he with delight destroys helpless creation with heel.
Snail is female symbol and aggression demonstration towards her indicates on well-developed sadistic inclinations and not necessary physical, but arguably - moral.
Erection.
He prepares spaghetti; although he hates them and everything what he does comes out badly. Or he put them in cold water, or water boiled over, or salt or spices are short.
According to Freud, spaghetti and others of that ilk are also symbol of male dignity. Look, how he makes much of it. Probably, he indeed has what to be worried about.
You "built" him.
He dreams that you together go to the country to take rest, but instead of a picnic you ask him to dig the ground. And you give commands, turn out to be dissatisfied with his actions. He is angry, but does what you told him to do.
Ground symbolizes Yin. Your man is angry because you give commands, force him your position, and restrain his individuality. Hence - his annoyance. But the fact that he will obediently make everything indicates that he subconsciously needs your management. It looks like you are on the right path.
He is afraid of intimacy.
He dreams that it is necessary to change light bulb in lamp, but for this it is necessary to climb up on a high ladder. But the ladder is too high and labile, that is why he tries to "secure" himself - binds the ladder and even asks a man down there to hold it.
Movements on a ladder symbolically represents sexual act, all fears and worries of the dream are connected with it. For determining his inner position the most important is dream's final. What had he decided - to climb up or not, fix the electric bulb or not? »
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