2010-02-15 Find out everything about his secret desires. Part 1

If you want to find out what your beloved wants in the bed, don't hurry to ask him directly. Men are fearful creatures and it is unlikely that your beloved will honestly confess. But if to take a different approach, from part of subconscious mind, it is possible to worm out the most concealed secrets. Often (especially after long relation) girls complain on arid, boring sex with loving person. Say that they got sexual "loafer". But when psychologists begin to talk with this man, it turns out that he has even very interesting fantasies. The fact is that fantasies are subconscious expression of our desires. But they should be treated correctly.

It is better to begin the talk about partner's fantasies in the bed, after sex. Relaxed man, firstly, will not notice any catch and will tell all his secret passions. Secondly, to begin such talk "before" is fraught with discoveries to which you may be not ready. So, tact and expertly chosen moment is already half of success.

The main male fantasies are only seven. Namely they help to figure out what exactly should be fixed in your sexual relations.

Sex of two men with one woman

Many girls think that any man dreams to invite to the bed the third person - a girl. In realty on the first place in not official hit-parade of sex-desires is placed fantasy when with a girl have sex two men. If beloved has confessed you about it, don't hurry to reckon him among perverts. The issue is about fears here. Almost every man is secretly afraid to disgrace himself in the bed. And that is why some representatives of sterner sex feel themselves uncertain, especially if you date not for a long time. For them each sex is some kind of exam. But when he imagines his girlfriend in the bed with another man, he feels himself more confident immediately. Firstly, from his girlfriend falls a shade of inaccessibility. Secondly, presence of another man will increase chances to satisfy girlfriend.

Of course, you shouldn't understand such dreams literally and to call ex-boyfriend to be the third. You just have to take into consideration that your beloved is afraid not to satisfy you. And you should suggest him with actions and words how to act.