2009-01-06 A Present for Your Lover

Buying sex toy for yourself. Buying of a sex toy is like buying of household appliance. You should decide what function you need more, how much money you are ready to spend and what color you prefer most of all. For instance, if you are buying a vibrator, consider the following questions:

What area of your body you want to stimulate - one prefers clitoral stimulation, others are fond of vaginal and anal simultaneous penetration - there are a lot of varieties. Are you going to insert your vibe? If yes, think of the most suitable size. What speed of vibration you need? Is it important for you to control it or to change the mode? What kind of texture and shape of the vibrator you need? Also, you have to think whether you should worry about the noise, if sound proofing in your apartment is bad and you are worry about the neighbors to hear side tones from your bedroom.

Besides, you should think of the best storing place for your sex toys. If you worry that somebody can find your vibe, try to hide it at "secret" place, where you keep private stuff, such as dairy or love letters. Or you can use a reverse psychological effect - keep it with usual stuff which nobody fix their attention on.

Buying sex toy for your partner. If you are going to make s gift for your partner, first of all, you should know what kind of sexual stimulation he/she prefers. If you gift won't correspond to any idea, it will just become one more buzzing piece of plastic or unknown object without any sexual message.

Speaking about specific characteristics of sex toys, let's suppose that you are woman who wants to choose the toy for her partner, which meets his interests. If you want to display your imagination, just buy realistic vagina or pocket pussy, which he can use anytime he wants. But you should keep in mind that he will probably use it a couple of times and then it will become a cold piece of plastic. Maybe it is better to buy something that will help you to get pleasure from making sex together?

You can also make a bargain together - you both will choose sex toys for each other. Thus, the choice of sex toy has a core of sense, and it will allow you to find out more about your partner.